How to use a dildo?

Your dildo and you: our tips for using this iconic sex toy

Ah, dildos! In addition to being a near- unanimous favorite in the pursuit of pleasure , these famous adult toys are nothing new. The first dildo dates back to 28,000 BC. This iconic sex toy has spanned the ages and cultures. There are a thousand ways to use it , whether you're a novice or an expert.

How do you use a dildo properly ? From suction cups to anal dildos, what are the different models? Is a dildo necessarily a vibrator? Let's discover together how to make penetration the key to your sensations.

Suction cup, anal, strap-on: what are the different types of dildos?

Dildos come in several categories. Whether you're in a relationship or solo, there's bound to be one for you .

The realistic dildo

The realistic dildo is arguably the most popular toy. Designed to closely mimic the look and feel of a penis , it offers authentic vaginal or anal stimulation. It also adapts to all comfort levels.

The anal dildo

If you're looking to explore backdoor stimulation , an anal dildo is the perfect option. This plug is often thinner to make it easier to insert into the anus . Don't hesitate to use a water-based lubricant for an even more enjoyable experience, such as Mixgliss Lub odorless gel .

The strap-on dildo

You may know it as a "strapon." Whatever the case, the strap-on dildo is undoubtedly iconic. Attached to a harness (the belt), it allows you to reproduce the act of penetration as a couple . A most exciting experience to share with a partner !

The double dildo

This elongated and flexible sex toy is for lovers of heightened sensations . With its two ends, it allows simultaneous penetration :

• In the vagina and anal canal for solo stimulation;
• For one person and their partner.

After all, versatility and fun start with the same letter!

The suction cup dildo

Perfect for solo play, the suction cup dildo attaches easily to any smooth surface . This gives you complete freedom of movement to explore all your erogenous zones.

Want to see life in color? We recommend our Dildolls Stargazer suction-cup dildo . Is anal your thing? Discover the Godebuster plug !

Dildo or vibrator: what’s the difference?

It's a common question: when it comes to sex toys, should you use a dildo or a vibrator ? Both are designed for penetration , whether vaginal or anal , but their main difference lies in the vibrating aspect.

A dildo, also called a dildo , doesn't vibrate. It's usually made of soft silicone to fit your curves, but it can be equipped with a strap or a powerful suction cup to keep it in place no matter how you twist and turn. A vibrator, on the other hand, provides stimulation through vibrations that propel you to seventh heaven.

The dildo is the ideal gateway to the world of sex toys. It allows you to gently discover the sensations of penetration with a toy . It's up to you to choose whether you want to move on to more intense sensations, such as vibrations, with a vibrator. Various technologies exist to vary the pleasures: tapping or thrusting have even more surprises in store for you!

If you prefer to focus on your external sensations , you can choose a third type of toy: the stimulator , which is not designed to be inserted, but to titillate your anatomy outside your sex, for example by providing gentle caresses to your clitoris.

How to Use a Dildo Properly: 6 Secrets for Maximum Pleasure with Your Favorite Toy

There are a multitude of ways to use a dildo . Here are our tips to help you find the best one for you.

1. Take a position for your pleasure

The position you adopt is crucial to fully enjoying your dildo. The goal: discover what gives you the most sensations and makes you lose your way in no time. Don't hesitate to experiment!

• Lying on your back with your legs raised will be ideal if you are a beginner;
• Positions on your stomach or on all fours will promote deeper and firmer penetration of your sex toy;
• Lying on your side with your thighs together will make your sex toy look bigger;
• Using a suction cup dildo will allow you to have your hands free to adopt your favorite positions.

2. Because orgasm often ends with three dots.

Dildos have a shape that makes them very effective in stimulating the most sensitive areas of our anatomy . Rather curved or rather straight: it's up to you to choose the design that suits you best!

The G-spot

The G-spot is one of the essential elements of female orgasm . It is usually located a few centimeters inside the vagina .

Point A

The A-spot (Ainslie's spot) is also located in the vagina, near the cervix, deeper than the G-spot . It is sensitive to pressure and stimulation, and can offer sensations just as delicious as the latter.

Point P

The P-spot concerns the prostate, the key area for anal pleasure. Using a dildo to stimulate it can lead to very powerful orgasms!

3. Because successful penetration is mainly a question of angle

Your satisfaction will also depend on the angle at which you insert your dildo. A slight adjustment can make all the difference:

• To stimulate the G-spot in your vagina, we recommend an upward angle ;
• To reach the P-spot , tilt your dildo downwards instead .

4. In your quest for sensations, every centimeter counts

At Love to Love, we see pleasure as universal . It's for everyone, regardless of their bedtime habits. The depth required for a dildo to be effective is no exception!

Whether you prefer shallow or very deep penetration, give yourself time to find what feels best for you; size isn't everything! Don't be afraid to explore and listen to your body first! Use slow movements at first, then increase the intensity as you feel more comfortable.

5. Your pleasure is a dance that requires rotation

This rule applies to both a dildo and a vibrator: rotate your sex toy inside your body. By rubbing it against the walls of your vagina or anal canal, you'll explore each of your internal erogenous zones with incredible precision . Heightened sensations guaranteed!

6. Audacity in penetration also means seeing double

Double penetration is a practice that offers extraordinary sensations. Whether using a double-ended dildo or combining two dildos, the experience can be intensely gratifying. If you're taking this journey as a couple, be sure to communicate well with your partner for intense mutual sexual play . Also, consider lube.

Knowing how to use a dildo opens the door to often unexpected sensations. Solo, you'll learn about yourself. As a couple, you'll discover the beauty of shared pleasure . But don't forget the most important thing: what matters is how you feel , not how you perform.