Formulated for our greatest pleasure and comfort , lubricants are essential to a happy and fulfilling sex life . For many women who sometimes suffer from intimate dryness , they are even essential to soothe discomfort during lovemaking .

With so many options available on the market, it's often difficult to navigate. That's why Love to Love offers a comprehensive guide to answer your question: Which lubricant should you choose ?

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Why use an intimate lubricant?

Since this is what will allow you to identify your need, it is obviously the first question to ask. Two main reasons: pleasure and comfort .

Because lubricant rhymes above all with pleasure. When it comes to sex, the wetter it is, the more... you see where we're going with this! No, lubricants are not there to compensate for the lack of interest in your partner, quite the opposite. They are your allies in pleasure, for the greater joy of both of you.

When arousal mounts, the woman's body generally produces natural vaginal lubrication . This varies from one person to another and depending on the degree of arousal, nothing more normal. At certain times in life, women can nevertheless experience vaginal dryness : the natural lubrication of the mucous membranes is insufficient and the suppleness of the vaginal tissue is reduced. This disorder particularly affects women during periods of decreased estrogen hormones (during and after pregnancy, during breastfeeding, during menopause). In cases of stress, taking certain medications, etc. These disorders can even be very common. Naturally, sexual intercourse is impacted. It can be painful and lastingly uncomfortable.

In this case, using an intimate lubricant is a great solution to soothe discomfort and enjoy a fulfilling sex life!

What type of lubricant is right for me?

Before purchasing, you should be aware of the different types of lubricants that exist on the market in order to identify which one will be best for you.

Intimate lubricants are actually designed from several bases:
• water
• silicone
• oil
• 100% natural

There are also hybrid lubricants . Most often, they are a mix of water and silicone. It's impossible not to find a lubricant that meets your needs!

Water-based lubricant : the most classic

Water-based lubricants are the most common. The reason is simple: they can be used in almost any situation, even those involving a silicone sex toy . They can also be applied to a condom, whether latex or not. This would even reduce the risk of the condom breaking.

The advantages:

Neutral pH, which reduces the risk of unwanted reactions
• they are gentle on the skin
• they don't stain the sheets
• very easy to clean after use.

However, this type of lubricant evaporates quite quickly, so it may be necessary to reapply it regularly. They also lose all effectiveness in the shower.

Silicone-based lubricant: the most versatile

The perfect choice for even the most sensitive skin and for longer, more intense intercourse. Since silicone is not absorbed by the skin or mucous membranes, lubrication is 5 times greater than with water-based lubricants.

Silicone-based lubrication offers many advantages:
• as with water-based ones, the pH is neutral, which reduces the risk of unwanted reactions;
• since it lasts longer, its application is done less regularly
• Ideal for shower sex and anal pleasure.

The only downside is that silicone isn't compatible with silicone! In other words, it's not recommended to use this type of lubricant on your silicone sex toys. You risk damaging the surface of your toy and promoting the growth of bacteria. Otherwise, if you're interested in a very versatile lubricant , you might have found the product that's right for your needs.

Oil-based lubricants : made to last

Great, but does having to reapply lube during sex bother you? Then consider oil-based lubricants! They last so long that you only need to apply them once. Another plus is that they're ultra-hydrating , making them an ideal choice for women suffering from temporary or chronic vaginal dryness. Be careful! This type of lubricant isn't compatible with condoms. They're also more complicated to clean and may stain your sheets or clothing.

Natural lubricants

Are you concerned about the ingredients in the lubricants listed above? No problem, there are 100% natural lubrication solutions that are even kinder to your body and the environment. Whether oil-based or water-based, they address the strengths and weaknesses mentioned above, while offering a formula that suits you.

Vegetable oil-based lubricants

Probably the most economical and environmentally friendly solution (as long as you choose an organic, cold-pressed oil). The choice of oil depends on your preferences. The most common is certainly coconut oil, but hazelnut oil can also satisfy the most demanding. For a neutral lubricant, choose macadamia or jojoba oil. Apply directly to the vulva, labia, or penis.

Natural water-based lubricants

If you're looking for a natural lubricant but find the texture of oil too greasy, this type of lubricant might be the perfect alternative . Water-based, aloe vera intimate gel and flaxseed gel are excellent compromises: both respectful of your intimacy and your health. Note that aloe vera is particularly appreciated for its healing and soothing properties.

Want to slide towards pleasure?

Now that you've identified the type of lubricant that best suits your body and your needs, let's talk about pleasure! Variety of textures, warming effect, different flavors... the lubricants available on the market are vying with each other to spice up your naughty moments and transport you to seventh heaven.

Follow the guide and let yourself slide into pleasure.

Vary the textures: Did you think that lubricants always came in gel form? While this is the most common format, there are other textures that will make lubrication much more fun.

Discover Super Smooth Intimate Lubricating Foam

Transform your lovemaking into a foam party with Super Smooth. Light, airy, and creamy like whipped cream, this water-based foam will make you melt with pleasure. Playful and super lubricating, it will be your favorite play partner with or without a sex toy . Best of all, it comes with a pump with extremely precise dosage.

Combine pleasures: What if your lubricant was more than just a lubrication aid? Treat yourself to 2-in-1 solutions that transform your lubricant into a true ally for your naughty moments.

Love to Love Touch My Body Flavored Lubricants

The silky texture of this massage fluid brings a unique sensuality to your caresses and leaves your skin satiny. And since pleasure never comes alone, this 2-in-1 is your naughty companion even in your loving embraces. For total voluptuousness, apply Touch my body to your erogenous zones and slide towards ecstasy thanks to its intense lubrication.

(Other) Things To Know About Lubricants

If you've made it this far in our guide, you've probably realized that choosing a lubricant isn't something to be taken lightly. Here, we've gathered 5 other essential things to keep in mind for optimal and safe use.

Beware of allergies

Using lubricant adds a lot of spice and comfort to your sex life. Unfortunately, your body can develop intolerances to some of its ingredients. If you experience unpleasant sensations after applying your lubricant (burning, tingling, etc.), we advise you to stop using it and consult your doctor.

Lubricant and fertility

Are you planning to have a baby? Then be extra careful when choosing your lubricant. Make sure you choose a fertility lubricant, as those not formulated for this purpose can have a negative effect on sperm orientation and speed. This is particularly the case with those containing glycerin and parabens.

Always use clean gel

It is important to always use clean gel each time. For example, if you want to penetrate your partner vaginally after anal penetration , you must use clean gel to prevent bacteria from growing.

Compatibility with condoms and sex toys

As we mentioned earlier, not all lubricants are compatible with condoms and sex toys. As a reminder: only water-based and silicone-based lubricants can be used with latex condoms; silicone-based lubricants are not compatible with silicone toys.

For women… but not only!

When it comes to sex, what's good for one is often good for the other. And while lubricants are usually used on the female genitals, the penis shouldn't be ignored either. If you're using a condom, for example, you can put a drop of lubricant on the tip of the male penis to enhance sensations . Apparently, using lubricant for masturbation and fellatio makes them even more enjoyable!

We've come to the end of this guide to help you navigate the wonderful world of intimate lubricants . As you've seen, it's essential to follow our step-by-step instructions to make the best choice!

Whether for your comfort or to spice up your sexuality, lubricants are true allies of pleasure, to be consumed without moderation.

It's your turn to enjoy!